Hiding ME and Me

So It's ME awareness week from the 7th of May to the 13th with ME awareness day being the 12th of May. I have struggled to know where to start with ME awareness which is kind of funny considering I manage to write a blog post about it every week. I'm taking you far into … Continue reading Hiding ME and Me

When Days Out Don’t Go To Plan

Part of life is dealing with disappointment and accepting that sometimes it's just not your day. When you go out a total of once a week or less when it's not your day it can cut deeply. Add in the possibility that you could potentially face a negative reaction be that for using a disabled … Continue reading When Days Out Don’t Go To Plan

Pebbles, Mistakes And Growth

I am like any other human and I can focus on my past mistakes. I've made some massive ones in my lifetime. I am not the best person of letting go of the choices I made and the regret that followed it. I simply take a long time to get over the hurts in my … Continue reading Pebbles, Mistakes And Growth

I Felt Like I Needed To Write This

I haven't known whether to post this but this was my weekend. For all the spoonies out there. It was a hen party night last night and at the grand time of 9pm, I hit the invisible brick wall and then cried the whole way home. It was important night and I felt like I … Continue reading I Felt Like I Needed To Write This

Blurry Reality

Recently I had a moment when my reality which is my normal suddenly doesn't match up to the world's reality. If you've ever been to the opticians, there's typically a machine that takes a rough prescription of your eyes. It has a picture you look at, and it goes in and out of focus to … Continue reading Blurry Reality

Wisdom and Rainstorms

One of my favourite smells in the world is just after a heavy dose of rain/rainstorm. Especially in the summer, it just smells fresh and new and like the dousing of rain washed away some of the grime left from previous events. Life can become monotonous when you have any sort of long-term illness. The … Continue reading Wisdom and Rainstorms

Fear, Frustration, Fault & Struggling

Frustration. There are two meanings to this word according to Oxford Dictionaries. "The feeling of being upset or annoyed as a result of being unable to change something" and "The prevention of progress, success, or fulfilment of something." At this point in time, both of those interpretations of the meaning of the word frustration apply … Continue reading Fear, Frustration, Fault & Struggling

Starting Again & My Top 5 Hospital Must-Haves​

First things first, hello!  I am back on the mend at home and excited to be back writing. I have a way to go until I'm back to normal but it's heading in the right way. I've missed writing for you all, but the break has given me time to just worry about being ill. … Continue reading Starting Again & My Top 5 Hospital Must-Haves​

My Top 20 Valentine’s Date Ideas

Valentine's day you either love it or loathe it. But I feel like it's worth writing a list of date ideas for us spoonies. So I hope there is one of these ideas you love and try out for valentines. Valentine's day doesn't mean you have to go all out for a fancy date great … Continue reading My Top 20 Valentine’s Date Ideas

Rose Tinted Reality

Recently I had a moment when my reality which is my normal suddenly doesn't match up to the world's reality. If you've ever been to the opticians, there's typically a machine that takes a rough prescription of your eyes. It has a picture you look at, and it goes in and out of focus to … Continue reading Rose Tinted Reality